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I remember calling a Chief Mate to the Captain’s office so he could sit in and witness while I confronted the Captain on record.
The issue was that I was being harassed by the Captain because I didn’t wear a bra. Anyone who knows me knows I hate those things and I have a right to wear my t-shirt without a bra.
But apparently this was a problem for the Captain. Some days he’d come up on the bridge on my 12-4 watch and spend 4 hours literally picking out my body parts one by one telling me what he’d like to do to them sexually.
When I finally stood my ground and pointed out how predatory his behavior was and that it wasn’t welcome he went on to start verbally abusing me in front on my subordinates, daily, shouting profanities at me on the radio during mooring stations.
It got so bad that he would even write emails to the crewing managers demanding that I be signed off the vessel because he claimed I was incompetent. My competence has never been an issue for many years sailing with different mates and masters until the day I stood up to him.
My only sin was just to reject his sexual advances.
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I also was harassed by captains and mates when I was sailing. It did lessen as I moved up in rank during my sea-going career, but some of the worst harassment I experienced was at school.
I believe that the tolerance for this behavior at all the academies, perpetuates these behaviors at sea. I have been outspoken on this subject for many years but administrations continue to sweep complaints under the rug.
I’m sorry you, and other women continue to go through this. If I can help in any way, please let me know.
Capt. Laura Kovary